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| Author | Confused with love |
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Guys I'm in terrible need of some advice,
I once had a girl in my life. We were under very good relationship, But i used to restrict her so much just because of the care and rights that i had on her and one day she suddenly comes to me saying "Its my life and i can decide whats right for me, Im not a slave for you to restrict" and leaves. I tried to contact and convince her but she started dating another guy.
Months passed around 7-8, i was a little too depressed since she is with someone else.
One day suddenly she comes to me saying "only now i understand your value"
And pleads to accept her.
What should i do now, Its been two days since she told and i haven't responded yet | | Hmmm...first of all, it would be best if you got to find out what actually happened between her and her boyfriend. That could give you much clue as to whether you should continue your relationship or not. But yes, try to do this as quickly as possible and do not show too much neglect or she could get pissed off again. If you really like her, this could be a great opportunity to gain her trust and respect. But yes as I said, if you find out why she broke up with her new boyfriend, I could help further. Till then, you should neither say yes nor no to her. | I like her, but the fact that she was with someone else stops me
This is where my problem is ! | | Well, I don't think it should be a problem just because she was with someone else (that is if they haven't taken it to the next level (you know what I mean)). Forgiveness is the best attribute to win over a girl's heart who has a broken heart. As I said earlier, find out the reason for her breakup, that will give you a whole lot of ideas on how to proceed further. Closely monitor her for some days. Try to ascertain whether she really has feelings for you or is she just trying to use you as someone to anger her other boyfriend. But I mean it, if she has feelings for you and you are ready to forgive, she could become the girl of your life :p | Its nice to hear, But practically my anger towards her is more than the care now-a-days.
Even if i continue a relationship with her, it won't be the it used to be and that will ofcourse result in a break up sooner or later. Anyways thank you so much for your advice. Il try to know what actually let her down about him then il contact you in PM ! Thank you | | closed by D-Rock (2013-01-04 21:39:01) |
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